How to Cope with the Emotional Rollercoaster of Caring for a Dog with Cancer

Apr 14, 2025
Omgaan met de emotionele rollercoaster bij het zorgen voor een hond met kanker

You are not alone

Caring for a dog with cancer is tough. The diagnosis can feel like a punch in the gut. You’re worried, sad, maybe even angry or helpless. And that’s all completely normal.
With this article, we want to offer a bit of support – no big promises, just honest tips and comfort. You’re doing your best, and that counts for a lot.

1. Emotions come in waves – and that’s okay

One day you feel strong, the next you break. That’s not strange. Here are some common emotions:

Fear

What’s going to happen? Is my dog in pain? Are we doing the right thing? Uncertainty is part of it.

Guilt

Should I have noticed something sooner? Did I do something wrong? The truth is: cancer just happens. It’s not your fault.

Sadness

Watching your dog struggle hurts. Take time to grieve, even if your dog is still with you. Don’t push your feelings away. Acknowledge them. You don’t have to be a superhero.

2. Reach out to people who understand

You don’t have to carry this alone. Talk to friends, family, or a professional listener. And if that’s hard, remember: others are going through the same thing.

At BraveBites, we’ve created a Facebook support group where dog owners share their stories – the good and the hard. Sometimes one small message can make you feel a little less alone.

3. Don’t forget yourself

When every day revolves around care, you tend to forget your own needs. But this is when self-care matters most.

What helps:

  • A short walk or some fresh air

  • Doing something calming (reading, music, a warm bath)

  • Talking or writing about your emotions

If it all becomes too much, talk to a therapist or coach. That’s not weakness. Far from it. You matter too. You’re not just a caregiver – you’re a person.

4. Focus on what you can do

You may not control the disease, but you can still make a difference in your dog’s daily life.

Think about:

  • Nutrition: BraveBites was made especially for dogs with cancer – tasty, nutritious, and gentle on the stomach.

  • Comfort: A quiet spot, a soft bed, a little extra love... Small things matter.

  • Routine: Stick to your vet’s plan and keep an eye on signals from your dog.

5. Celebrate the little things

Every step forward – no matter how small – deserves a moment of gratitude.

  • A day without vomiting.
  • A tail wag.
  • A meal finished to the last bite.

Sometimes strength is found in the joy of just one good day.

Finally

You are not alone in this. In our Facebook group, you’ll find people who truly get it – no judgment, just support.

And above all: you and your dog are stronger than you think.

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